Personal branding and marketing is all about relationship building. After all, most of your business probably already comes from referrals. But we all have dormant relationships; most likely, more than those which are active. So how can we light the fire under these relationships? And how can they inspire us to refer them more business?
Relationships are built on our three C’s: Our charisma, our character, and our competency. Our charisma is the personal magnetism, charm, and attraction that is not so readily explainable, but we all know it when we feel it. There are ways to improve our charisma as Vik’s audio-book “Magnetic Personality” details.
Most of our relationships are character driven. That is, our personalities (our “outside character”) match. We like each other; we have similar values, hobbies, and style. We enjoy playing golf with each or grabbing a drink after work. These business relationships quickly turn into friendships. Good times are had by all, but then we realize that we’re not doing much business together.
We’ve all had experiences where we like the guy, but wouldn’t necessarily do business with him or her. Perhaps we don’t trust in their capabilities or workmanship; what I call their “inside character” traits. Or, maybe we already have a worthwhile (economic) relationship with a competing professional.
They say they are different, but we’re not sure exactly how. So we don’t refer them any business. Or maybe we’re that guy: We say we’re different because we’re reliable and put relationships first. But doesn’t everybody seem to say that?
We’ve all put up with professionals who rub us the wrong way or lack people-skills, but definitely do a great job. So we give them our business and refer clients to them (we warn them first). We put up with their character faults, because they are so highly competent.
Of course, the best of both worlds is to be a highly-competent professional who has mastered the art of relationship building. And they are the rainmakers who seem to do a bounty of business, make a lot of money for everyone around them, and have friends for all the right reasons. We are all working toward being this way.
So as we work toward building relationships, we have to work toward making them productive. That is, as we showcase our fun personality, we must showcase our expertise. We must showcase how our expertise is different from the next advisor, and how our expertise is better for our target market.
Here’s a Marketing Thumb-rule to (re)brand yourself: Replace your boring 30-second “elevator pitch” or networking message, with a 1-line Catchphrase: It should Short, Memorable, Appealing, Repeatable, and Timely.
Instead of your boring title or confusing designations, Personal Brand Marketing clients talk about the articles, audio-books, text-books, blogs, or other media that they’ve authored or been quoted by. Others offer educational tidbits (1-liners) that are counter-intuitive. If you have the right personality, you can take a commonly-used phrase or cliché, and play on it. Or coin a new word (a neologism), phrase, or jargon that is simply S.M.A.R.T..
See the video in the next post!
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Luckily, it was my book release party (and 30th birthday). It was the biggest event the bookstore (I AM Books in Huntington, NY) ever had; and my book sold out. (This is bitter-sweet since I don’t have books for my speaking engagement on Friday; or for a real estate trade party on Tuesday; back-of-the-room sales is a Thumb-rule; this is a faux-pas.)
